Wednesday, July 22, 2009

CONFUSED ...

Are we what we do (for work)?  Or what we "just" do on a daily basis (how we treat others, what we prize, etc.)?  Or something else?  I have not been really confused about retirement until the last few weeks...  I WAS for so long, what I did ... a high school principal.  I'm not that any longer and haven't been for some time... Do/Did I need that to define "who I am?"  I'd like to think not ... All of us have egos, but  (again) I'd like to think that I have been able to keep mine in check, "using" just enough of it to be able to function in my job.... But is that really the case??    My life is completely turned around right now.  I  have gone from "ultra" planned to "no plan"  ...  from planned and scheduled to the max to "what day is it, again?"  I need to get "my ship" back on some course....

Yesterday I heard a "tale of woe" about a couple my age who because of the economy were going to have to sell one of their three "homes."  It's really hard for me to have any sympathy for them.  I don't see what they have really done to deserve such a life of luxury when others are worried about maintaining one home and having the ability to pay for necessities that "couple A" would never consider more than the lowest level of basics ... or less than that ....

It may be selective memory, but I don't remember our country ever having so many people that are ABSOLUTELY sure they are "right" about so many issues...  There is no real unity, only mis-trust and a real focus on "me" and "mine" ....

Even though it has been 15 years (DAD) and 23 years (MOM) since my parents died, I still miss them and am so thankful for all they did for me during their lifetimes... I wish I had done more to demonstrate my thankfulness to them while they were alive....

I worry about my daughters and son-in-law ... this economy stinks and I'm not sure when or how it will ever turn around and they will have a real chance to be both productive and successful people....  I am also so proud of my wife ... what an amazing lady!  She can do so many things... hopefully our lives won't end up like my parents (Mom dying first), because J is so much better equiped to live w/o me than vice versa....  I also am concerned about my relationship w/ my "family" on side of our extended side ... I have such limited contact w/ them...  It's easy to blame them, but it takes two to make any real problem and I am having trouble correcting the situation... I thought I was supposed to be a problem solver!?!

Well, answers are not likely to come soon or easily ....   At least the weather is not HOT and HUMID....  

Saturday, July 18, 2009

Sad Day / Coincidences?

This week I found a James Taylor recording of "Auld Lang Syne" that reached out and grabbed my attention. I also made phone contact w/ an old high school friend, Larry Miller. Both of these events started an avalanche of memories in my mind. And then... the BOMB exploded. "Walter Cronkite has died." I'm not sure anyone under the age of 55 can really appreciate the significance that this man had on America (United States).... When I compare Mr. Cronkite w/ the current group of "reporters" that fill our airwaves, I shutter at how far our standards have fallen. We've gone from a gentleman that earned the title of "the most trusted man in the United States" to people who only lie when their lips are moving.... SPIN - in Cronkite's time that was a term that referred to a short, carefree ride in your car - not the "story" that would be attached to every piece of even slightly negative news.... I sincerely hope that my children have the opportunity to experience a "newsman" (or woman) who demonstrates the same high standards of integrity and honesty during their lifetime. Lord knows, we could surely use someone truly like that now....

On a much less serious, even humorous vein I learned how far how our economy has fallen (or how badly Jamie Pollard mis-judged the ability / willingness of ISU fans to support his vision of ISU Athletics w/ their dollars).   In the fall of 2007,  to attend the Ia @ ISU FB game you had to purchase a season ticket w/ an individual game price of $90 for the IA/ISU game. In the fall of 2009 you can purchase a ticket to the Ia @ ISU FB game as part of a "package" of three games... a "preseason game vs. N Dakota (or ND ST), a Big 12 game vs. Colorado, and the Ia @ ISU game for (DRUM ROLL, please) .... $99! So if the the Ia game is still worth $90, and you assume Big 12 games are worth more than "preseason" games... the Colorado ticket is worth about $6 and the other game about $3! Or you can "slice and dice" this in another manner.... I am anxious and curious to see if local sports talk radio (this news was released on a Friday afternoon) will follow up on this "story" on Monday. I'm not sure how they maintain any semblance of credibility, if they don't address this topic....

2009 the year w/o summer .... Sorry, Doug.... but, I'm enjoying it! Until next time.... Q

Sunday, June 7, 2009

Restaurant Experience From Hell?

Another need to vent .... I was in the "Cities" this week visiting Kelly. During the day I put the top down on the convertible (thanks, Doug) and drove to somewhere (not a "chain") to eat. I had an "interesting" experience on Wednesday and I had a "not so good" experience on Thursday. I'll focus on my Thursday trip today. First, I had trouble finding the suburb I wanted (not a good start and certainly MY fault). But once I got to the area I wanted I drove easily to the restaurant where I wanted to eat. (Jan & I had eaten there before...) I got a great table on "the patio" that looked directly out on the marina. I was in the shade life was good..... that was about to change. After a short wait (5 minutes) I was able to "catch" a waitress and ordered a beer, a water, a "black & blue" burger, and fries. How long is a wait for your food (non-noon rush) before it becomes excessive??? Think about this before reading on .....

I didn't wait 20 minutes.... nor 25 minutes.... nor 30 minutes.... nor 35 minutes..... but 40 minutes - not once seeing my waitress to ask if I needed another beer or explain why my order was taking so long. (Maybe they had to catch the cow before taking it to be slaughtered?) Anyway after 40 minutes she returns w/ my burger ..... no fries.... "they will be here in a little bit." After finishing 1/2 of my sandwich my fries did arrive.... w/ 1/3 of them so crisp they could not be penetrated w/ a fork! (I imagine you are all rolling on the floor w/ laughter at this point, and we arent' "through" yet!) The menu said my sandwich & fries would be $8.50. This must be true everyday, but Thursday when I was charged $10 for the pair, coupled w/ my $4 beer and $1 in tax for a bill of $15! This almost put me over the edge.... in fact it did, but because I have developed the skill to "detect" when I am about to make a "significant mood change", I didn't rush to see the manager and "through up" on them about my experience... I was too afraid I would be unable to stop yelling (ranting?) and end up being visited by the local police department. (All of the time references given are accurate, not guesses because I called Kelly immediately after ordering and re-checked the time on my cell phone.)

Anyway.... it was "an experience." We often "pay" for our experiences and memories and, I guess, that is how I'm going to need to look at this..... The funny thing - it was a beautiful table and could have been a wonderful time, SO I may well go back, but only when I have someone w/ me to share the experience.

I hope to go to KC in a couple of weeks and spend a couple of days w/ my brother Andy and spend my mid-days in a similar fashion .... just w/ a short "wait" time. Take care......

Sunday, May 10, 2009

The World's Luckiest Guy!

I'm so lucky!  I have had an unbelievably GREAT birthday.... I'm blessed with such very dear friends.   Saturday started to become CRAZY when I looked from the deck into our front room and saw .... Deb & Jack Felkey from Montana!  I was on the phone w/ my brother Andy and said good-bye to him to greet them.  Within the hour Andy & Jane arrived from KC and the party was really on!  We were joined by Doug & Pam Williams and Lindsay & Pat Ellingson, and of course, Ashley Martin.   Before the night ended A.J. Felkey came from Chicago!   We had a great time visiting, eating pork loin, baked beans, Ogden pasta salad, hash brown casserole, and Dutch Oven desserts.  Along the way we drank a few beers and had some "Cayman Mamas."  What a very memorable evening!    If a person's wealth is measured in his friendships, I'm a billionaire, many times over.   Doug tended a great fire for us and at about 11 p.m. when most parties with "old folks" start to wind down and end, this one started gaining steam.   Next on the list were some rousing and spirited contests of "beer pong."  By 1 a.m. I had had all I could take and went quickly to sleep.  However, the party carried on, and on, and on (or so I'm told.)  I think Jack and Deb may have gone to bed about 2 a.m., but Kelly, A.J., and Andy (?) were still going strong (?) at 4 a.m.  What a night!  A huge thank you to all for making my 60th birthday something more than special.  I love all of you dearly......

Saturday, May 9, 2009

GOOD MORNING!

It is both Mother's Day weekend and my birthday! To add to the special treat, all of our girls (plus Andy W.) are here for the weekend. We are having a BBQ this evening and the weather looks great.... PLUS it is a full moon and we should be able to have a bonfire! The final piece of good news .... the girls gave me a new, huge hammock for my birthday - I secretly think Bailey (owner of our current hammock) and Jamie were afraid they wouldn't get any "hammock time" this summer, if we didn't have a second one.....

Anyway, I usually post when I'm frustrated, but not today! Everyone have a GREAT weekend!

Wednesday, September 17, 2008

WALL STREET WOES

Well we are at that point again. I can't stand it any longer.... Begin by reading this:


Dear Main Street,

Are you trying to make sense of what's happening here on Wall Street?

Don't worry -- you aren't alone. A lot of people even here are trying to figure that out. It isn't that complicated, but Wall Street is so full of mumbo jumbo that it's easy to get confused -- or bored.

Say "collateralized mortgage obligation" a dozen times and see if you can stay awake.

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Stick with me, though, Main Street and I'll explain what's going on here in New York.

Believe it or not, you've seen this movie before. And I don't mean, "It's A Wonderful Life," though that movie isn't far from the mark.

What's going on is a classic industry shakeout -- not all that different from the shake-out of the American steel or auto industries over the past half century. Just in a much shorter time frame.

In just nine months, we have gone from five big, independent Wall Street brokers to only two -- Morgan Stanley and Goldman Sachs.

The government took over Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac, the country's largest mortgage companies, a bit more than a week ago.

And just Tuesday, we nationalized AIG, the world's largest insurer.

Of course, consolidation inevitably produces winners and losers. Lehman Brothers, the fourth largest US broker, is a loser. It went bankrupt two days ago.

Bank of America is a winner. It bought brokerage Merrill Lynch three days ago and is now our nation's largest financial institution.

That's a lot of change in not a lot of time.

And when there's change, there's uncertainty. Today, for example, we still don't know whether Washington Mutual, the largest U.S. savings & loan, will stay independent.

Uncertainty isn't good for any business, as it destroys confidence. It is especially bad for our financial system, because the system runs entirely on confidence. I lend you money confident that you will pay me back. If I don't have confidence in you, I won't lend.

Which is just like Wall Street today. Our nation's financial institutions don't really trust each other. And for good reason.

In all, about $2 trillion dollars of lower quality mortgages are spread about our financial system. Many of these are now in default which threatens the banks that hold them.

And of course the lack of trust spirals. Less lending by banks to each other, less lending to Main Street's companies and less lending to you. In the end, the money's not there for you to get a mortgage or auto loan.

And you account for 70% of the economy. So when the money isn't there, that's bad for everybody. Without credit, you get a crisis -- a credit crisis.

Of course, we deserve heaps and heaps of blame. Wall Street took the mortgages, sliced and diced them a hundred ways, sold and traded them. We took a nice cut along the way, blissfully oblivious to the risks.

We do have a remarkable talent for cooking up crazy get-rich schemes. Remember the Internet bubble? That was less than a decade ago.

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But Main Street, you're also to blame.

Recall the hundreds of billions in bad mortgages that are now killing Wall Street? That was money lent to you, Main Street, for homes and condos many of you could not afford.

And ironically, it is now your money that will be used to repay those dud mortgages because we on Wall Street are running out of money.

The government takeovers of AIG and Fannie and Freddie? That's your money. J.P. Morgan's buyout of broker Bear Stearns last March was also your money,

You might not like it. We on Wall Street may not like it. And even the politicians in Washington may not like it.

But nobody has a choice -- unless you happen to have an odd yearning to live in a barter economy.

So Main Street, our crisis is unfortunately your crisis. We made the mess together and now we pay for it together.

The mergers, government takeovers and bankruptcies that will continue to sweep our financial system are a good sign. It means that we are fixing ourselves. Albeit at gunpoint.

Isn't it strange the way our free market works? The government saves Wall Street -- and you Main Street foot the bill.

My advice? Save this letter and show it next time we all embark on another stupid misadventure.

Sincerely,

Wall Street

Copyrighted, Dow Jones & Company, Inc. All rights reserved.

Q'S RESPONSE:


I'D LIKE TO ADD ANOTHER IDEA --- SENSE THE GOVERNMENT - MY MONEY - AS YOU LIKE TO PUT IT - IS GOING TO PAY FOR THIS "MISDAVENTURE", LET'S HAVE SOME GOVERNMENT REGULATION TO PREVENT PEOPLE FROM CAUSING THIS TYPE OF SITUATION AGAIN. WE HAVE TOO MUCH GOVERNMENT YOU'VE SAID FOR SOME TIME ..... WELL YOU CERTAINLY ARE IN LINE FOR THE "GOVERNMENT" - "MY MONEY" TO BAIL EVERYONE OUT OF THIS SITUATION. AND, (DEEP BREATH HERE) EXCUSE ME, I DIDN'T BUY THINGS I COULDN'T AFFORD, BUT NOW I KNOW HOW MANY OTHER PEOPLE BOUGHT SUCH EXTRAVAGANT HOMES AND DROVE PRICES UP FOR OTHERS THAT WERE BEYOND ANY COMMON SENSE.

YOU PREACH INDIVIDUAL ACCOUNTABILITY, BUT NOT IN THIS INSTANCE. I AGREE - WE HAVE NO CHOICE - BUT WE MIGHT HAVE HAD A CHOICE OR PREVENTED SOME OF THIS PROBLEM WITH SOME - ON NO, I'M GOING TO SAY IT - GOVERNMENT REGULATION ALONG THE WAY. YOU'VE CONTINUED TO TELL US THAT GOVERNMENT IS CORRUPT AND INEFFICENT - WELL IT WAS THE PRIVATE SECTOR THAT MADE THIS MESS AND NOW NEEDS - SCRATCH THAT - MUST HAVE GOVERNMENT INTERVENTION (MONEY) TO BAIL THEM OUT....

WE MAY NOT BE ABLE TO AFFORD A DEMOCRATIC PRESIDENT WITH A DEMOCRATIC CONGRESS, BUT WE SURE AS HELL CAN'T AFFORD 4 MORE YEARS OF ANYONE WHO AGREES WITH GEORGE BUSH "94%" OF THE TIME! I ACTUALLY COULD HAVE VOTED FOR THE MAVERICK MCCAIN OF 2000, BUT THIS "NEW AND IMPROVED" MODEL (I.E. RIGHT WING BUTT KISSER), JUST DOESN'T CUT IT....

THIS PAST WEEK I REALLY "ENJOYED" MICHAEL BARRONE'S (SPELLING?) RESPONSE TO ELINOR CLIFT'S (SPELLING) COMMENT ON THE MCLAUGHLIN GROUP....

ELINOR: YOU'VE BEEN TELLING ME FOR MONTHS/YEARS WE HAVE TOO MUCH GOVERNMENT AND REGULATION, WELL YOU CERTAINLY ARE IN FAVOR OF THE GOVERNMENT INTERVENING AT THIS TIME....

MICHAEL: THIS IS NO TIME TO TALK ABOUT WHO IS RESPONSIBLE FOR WHAT WENT WRONG. WE JUST NEED TO ADDRESS THE PROBLEM.

Q' RESPONSE: BULL SHIT!

I KNOW, I KNOW.... I CAN'T BE VERY SMART BECAUSE I'M NOT RICH - CERTAINLY NOT IN MONETARY TERMS - I DON'T HAVE A MILLION DOLLARS, MUCH LESS THE 3-5 MILLION DOLLARS JOHN MCCAIN SETS AS THE LOWER LIMIT OF BEING RICH. AND - I DON'T HAVE SO MANY HOUSES OR CONDO OR TOWNHOMES THAT I CAN'T KEEP TRACK OF HOW MANY I HAVE....

BUT I DO BELIEVE THIS, THE UNITED STATES AS WE HAVE KNOWN IT CAN NOT AND WILL NOT EXIST WITHOUT A MIDDLE CLASS AND THE MIDDLE CLASS IS AN ENDANGERED SPECIES AT THIS TIME....

THINK BACK TO A POLITICAL SLOGAN / QUESTION FROM OUR NOT TO DISTANCE PAST... ARE YOU BETTER OFF NOW THAN YOU WERE 4 (OR 8) YEARS AGO? I DON'T THINK MANY PEOPLE CAN SAY YES TO THAT QUESTION.....

Friday, July 25, 2008

Sorry, I Can't Stand Anymore!

I feel like Popeye in the old cartoons. "I've had all I can stand. I can't stands no more!" Or words to that effect.... Where to start?

How about Postville? I continue to read editorials and opinion pieces about the guilt of those illegals who were using false IDs, social security numbers, and other methods to live in our country illegally. I understand that and don't excuse their crime. They should face the consequences, although I would hope those would be as humane as possible while still holding them accountable. What I don't understand is how a company can employ a so many illegals that they make up a significant portion of their work force (and I'm not talking about 4 out of 10, but hundreds of people) and receive so little in the way of their (the company's) consequences? The fact that the company was under investigation for "fair labor" practices and this "raid" seems to have "de-railed" that process, well our government and business have the kind of reputation that makes you wonder about the coincidence of it all.....

And as long as we are in Eastern Iowa, let's move on down the road to Iowa City and the University of Iowa... But before we begin let's be fair. I have been a Cyclone fan for many years. But, when Jason Berryman was an idiot, and Larry Eustachy was an idiot, I didn't support or condone their actions - and in my mind, the allegations (I know they are just allegations, but if the U of Iowa hadn't "handled" this situation in this matter, the entire incident might have already reached a "conclusion), in this case are even worse. Another student wasn't just punched and robbed and somebody wasn't at a party where their presence was completely inappropriate... A student was very probably raped - not by just one man, but two and then possibly an entire "system."

You have to think that people in high positions of authority at the U of Iowa are smart people. The picture of how this case has been handled does not give you that impression. Again, where to start? Let's start withholding information from the Board of Regents because "you" thought FERPA made sharing that information illegal. With the stakes as high as they were in this case, I think the people "at the top" at the U of Iowa would damn well make sure of where they stood before they took action (or in this case decided they couldn't take action).

You read bits and pieces of information in the DM Register (more to come on that later), but you never get a complete and detailed look at the whole picture. If I'm asking questions (and really wanting answers), I'd like to know how football players had keys to unoccupied rooms? Did they get them from the athletic department? Were they gained in some other legal/illegal way? Coach Ferentz has stated that "he doesn't make housing assignments at the U of Iowa... Ok, then why has it been reported that he sent to FB players to live in the "alleged" crime scene after the fact? Was this incorrect reporting or just another unanswered question?

And speaking of questions, when Larry "I have no brain and need a life" Eustachy was busy doing his best to screw up his life and lose his job, the DM Register seemingly lived in Ames and reported on this story daily (it would have been more often but the DM Tribune was no longer printed). Yet this story, until only the last few days, was worthy barely a mention in the paper... Am I bias about this fact - very probably, but can you honest state you believe given the differences in the severity of the "allegations" that the level of coverage on the U of Iowa story is anywhere equal to the one on Iowa State University?

Whether we are Hawkeyes or Cyclones, many of us are parents, and for those who have daughters, the "track record" at the U of Iowa is not comforting. Should young women avoid getting drunk and putting themselves in dangerous situations? Absolutely! But as the father of daughter, who might well have done something equally as stupid, I don't think this should make them "fair game" for the morons that are brought to our state campuses by people paid millions of dollars for their supervision of a program involved with playing "games." This entire thing leds me to wonder - if a scholarship student in the chemistry departments is involved in allegations of illegal behavior, are the professors in that department called upon to help "deal with " the situation?

Am I angry? You bet.... I hope that when both of these incidents are finally put completely to "rest", that their is fair and equal accountability for all those who have errored.....